Is your relationship heading downhill because your wife or girlfriend just doesn’t 'get' you?

Stop worrying about your marriage or relationship, and feel happy again.

Find out how individual relationship therapy or marriage counseling can help men like you.

Our therapy practice - Phoenix Men’s Counseling - works specifically with smart, motivated men like yourself who want real results. If your marriage or relationship is struggling, our individual therapy and couples counseling services in Phoenix can help get your marriage or relationship back on the right track.

Maybe your wife or girlfriend keeps telling you that you’re the problem, that you’re not “emotionally available”, you’re too angry, or that you’re not meeting her needs. This leaves you confused, frustrated and maybe angry.

She wants you to “open up more,” or be different and you don’t know how to do that. You feel pressured and resentful. Why can’t she just accept you the way you are?

You’re worried that your marriage or relationship is taking a turn for the worse, and that if you don’t seek couples therapy soon, it might end.

You want counseling alone, or marriage counseling to help fix your marriage or relationship problems, because you know things between you have been better in the past.

I hear guys tell me that “when we’re good, we’re good,” but those times are few and far between now for you and her. You and your mate love each other, but you may not be liking each other right now.

Many men are resistant to getting a therapist for themselves.

Further, many men and women put off seeing a couples or marriage therapist for far too long.

Plenty of men think the relationship or marriage problems will just get better over time, or that they can fix it themselves. Many push aside issues, withdraw or shut down, and avoid talking about the deeper problems, hoping things will improve.

Your relationship problems may leave you feeling:

Ultimately, you really do want it to work, because you’re not ready to give up on her, or on your relationship. You love her, and you’ve put so much into your relationship but just can’t do without a counselor.

Her happiness - and yours - are your top priorities, and you both miss the fun and ease of your time together. You’ve considered counseling, maybe for a while now, but haven’t taken that first step yet.

Signs you may need counseling in your marriage or relationship:

As an individual counselor as well as marriage and couples therapist, I want to help you solve your relationship problems.

I’m an individual and couples counselor who specializes in working with men and the women who are their partners. I help men and their wives and girlfriends who are struggling in their marriages or their relationships. I help men and couples create more happiness, peace of mind, and less distance and conflict.

Through individual counseling, I’ll work with you to help you find ways to improve your relationship with your partner and to feel better about your relationship. When she’s happier, you’ll be happier.

Through couples counseling, I’ll work with you to figure out what’s broken in your marriage or relationship, and to develop the solutions you need to make your relationship more fulfilling.

Together through therapy, we can help you develop the right tools to reduce conflict, open up to your wife or girlfriend and get back to being happy again together.

Here’s how I can help you with your relationship in counseling:

How others have benefitted from individual or marriage counseling with Jason:

"Fantastic results. I feel a stronger connection to my girlfriend. I feel that we can communicate better and are much closer to each other emotionally."

"You single-handedly saved our relationship. We were in a very bad place before coming here, and now we are closer than we have ever been."

“The process of finding a counselor was at first complicated and overwhelming. We were extremely fortunate to have found someone as empathetic and knowledgeable as Jason. Jason took the time to get to know and understand us as individuals and as a couple. Regardless of the situation I feel we can always turn to Jason for guidance that we can trust.”

If you are in a relationship that isn’t working and want counseling for yourself or marriage therapy for you and your partner, contact me and find out how we can get started.

Single, but need relationship help? You’ve come to the right place.

I provide counseling to single men who are dealing with relationship issues that keep them from having a good relationship, and with guys that have come out of a bad one, too.

Many times, we get stuck and can’t find ourselves attracting the right mate for us.

Sometimes, hopeful guys like you might have unresolved issues with women, like picking the wrong women for you, or dating the same kind of woman over and over, that prevent you from experiencing a successful relationship or having enjoyable dating experiences.

Relationships are hard, and rejection hurts.

Maybe you’ve come out of a divorce, separation or breakup. There are many issues you’re confronting, like hurt, anger and grief over the marriage, worry about your kids, financial stress and being single again.

Maybe you need to heal yourself first, before you can open up to love again, or maybe you want to deal with just being on your own for a while.

As a men’s counselor, I understand the relationship issues you face. I have successfully provided therapy to many men in your position.

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My name is Jason Fierstein, and I’m a counselor and therapist in Phoenix, Arizona, specializing in working with guys just like you to get "in synch" with their wives and girlfriends, and to develop happier and more fulfilling relationships, and better lives.

Contact me at my Phoenix counseling office to tell me about your relationship problems today. I’d like to help you.

Jason Fierstein, MA, LPC