Monthly Archives: July 2009

The Distracted Guy: Porn, Infidelity, and Emotional Cheating

Tweet All too often, I talk with guys and couples who are having issues with one or more of the three of these issues. It’s like guys have one foot in their relationship or marriage, and one foot out. Many … Continue reading

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On Couples Counseling: Money, Power, and a House of Cards

Tweet Money helps, but if you don’t have the right foundation to creating a marriage or relationship, you are building a house cards. I talk with too many guys who still are committed to the idea that working their asses … Continue reading

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Dealing with Anger without Putting Your Fist through the Wall

Tweet If there could be a point in time where a couple realizes that there is a problem, I would have to say that one that I hear more often than not is when the guy ends up with his … Continue reading

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Building a Better Marriage: The Affection Factor

Tweet One thing that guys have a very hard time doing is expressing affection to the women in my life. Small acts of kindness go a long way. For a lot of men, showing their wives and girlfriends how they … Continue reading

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Phoenix Mens Counseling: I Need Help, and I’m Drowning in Alphabet Soup!

Tweet Sometimes, for potential clients, the hardest part is working up both the courage to admit that there is a problem in their life that needs attention. For clients, especially guys, it’s easy to avoid admitting or knowing when to … Continue reading

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Phoenix Mens Counseling: Therapy for Gay Individuals and Couples

Tweet At Phoenix Mens Counseling, I work extensively with gay clients and couples to help them better their lives and relationships. My practice is same-sex friendly, and I work with couples to help communicate better, lessen anger and cool tension, … Continue reading

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Phoenix Mens Counseling: How to Convince Your Husband to Get Counseling

Tweet When I saw this title, which came from a search for my counseling services, I thought it was brilliant. I couldn’t have said it better. I’ve never thought to Google things that specifically, but I liked it, and I … Continue reading

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Phoenix Mens Counseling: On Melting Her Hurt and Winning Her Trust

Tweet For women, trust and hurt are intertwined. I speak with a lot of women who hold tightly onto their hurt towards their husbands and boyfriends. This creates a “freezing out” effect, where guys become pretty confused, reactive and angry, … Continue reading

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