Monthly Archives: June 2009

Phoenix Mens Counseling: “Sex and Your Shadow Side”

Tweet I was watching a video of Gov. Mark Sanford of South Carolina yesterday, stumble through his atonement from his bewildering escapades to South America. He explained his extramarital affair, and all the people he hurt, and uses a lot … Continue reading

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Phoenix Mens Counseling: “I’m Straight. Mostly.”

Tweet I’m aware of this contingent of men who are in marriages and who are having feelings for other men, or who are interested in exploring same-sex relationships, whether that’s an emotional relationship with another man, a sexual relationship or … Continue reading

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Men and Depression: Repressed Needs

Tweet I’m not going to start out by saying that depression is merely a function of not getting what you want. Depression has roots deeper than that explanation. It can be caused, or related to, nutritional imbalances, individual and varying … Continue reading

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Couples, Marriage and Relationship Counseling Issues: Reactivity

Tweet Conflicts get fueled when one partner unconsciously reacts to the other partner’s behavior, and then the snowball starts. It accumulates, picks up speed, and, before you know it, the snowball is mammoth and careening down the mountain towards an … Continue reading

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Father’s Day and “Fathering” Day

Tweet On this Father’s Day, what will you to to acknowledge the man that brought you into this Earth, and who showed you the ropes about how to be the good guy you’ve grown into? Remember your first little league … Continue reading

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Guys: Bringing Your “A-Game” Back

Tweet Remember how great your “A-Game” once was? Remember how you felt in control and really enjoyed what you were doing, whether in work or in your personal life? Yeah, we’re talking about that quality of life were you’ve achieved … Continue reading

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What Types of Phoenix Counseling Services for Men?

Tweet I counsel both men and women who are struggling in their lives and relationships, but my interest and specialty is working with men who need help. You know the guy – he’s too proud to pull over for directions … Continue reading

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Phoenix Counseling for Men Who Can’t Communicate

Tweet One of the biggest issues that I work with is a guy’s simple inability to communicate his needs and feelings. It’s this lack of ability to communicate that creates seismic tensions in his marriage or relationship. Guys are just … Continue reading

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Relationship on the Rocks? Consider a Male Relationship or Marriage Counselor

Tweet The biggest reason to work with a male relationship counselor (i.e. me) is because men often feel more comfortable talking with a guy. It’s true. I think that men feel like they have an alliance, although the reality is … Continue reading

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Japan’s ‘herbivore men’ – less interested in sex, money

Tweet by Morgan Neill CNN TOKYO, Japan (CNN) — They are young, earn little and spend little, and take a keen interest in fashion and personal appearance — meet the “herbivore men” of Japan. Former CNN intern Junichiro Hori is … Continue reading

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